Pros: Good shape and size for anal beginners; 10-plus vibration modes; adjustable angle; stimulates both the prostate and the perineum; multiple different ways you can control it; waterproof
Cons: Connectivity strength is only so-so; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Panty Vibe: We-Vibe Moxie
Material: Silicone
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Place the toy on the inside of your underwear, wherever it feels best, and put the included magnetic clip on the outside of your underwear to hold the toy in place. Turn the toy on and off with its power button and control it with the other buttons, or with the We-Vibe app.
Imagine walking around in a public place, trying to keep your face neutral, while your partner controls a vibrator in your underwear from miles away. It’s a wild thought, but with the Moxie+, it’s more than doable. “Magnetic clips secure it to your panties, so you can enjoy hands-free pleasure,” Rowntree says. The convenient magnetic clip sets the Moxie+ apart from lots of other panty vibes, which can fall out at inconvenient times (and trust me, you do not want that).
Pros: Powerful vibrations; 10+ vibration modes; strong magnet; discreet; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Connectivity strength is somewhat hit-or-miss; can’t be used by anyone with a pacemaker or implanted heart defibrillator due to the internal magnet; can’t be used with silicone-based lube
The Best Cock Ring: Lovense Diamo App Controlled Rechargeable Cock Ring
Material: Silicone
Battery Life: 3 hours
How to Use: Turn the toy on or off by holding down its one button. Control its settings with the same button or pair it with the Lovense app.
The Diamo C-Ring gives couples the ability to create up to 10 unique vibration patterns, to really cater to what turns you both on. This one is perfect for mutual masturbation over video chat, as it stimulates multiple erogenous zones, from the shaft to the p-spot.
Pros: Stimulates the shaft, balls, and perineum; quiet; waterproof; can be worn in multiple different positions/orientations; improves erection strength and stamina
Cons: May not fit very thick or very thin penises; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Couples Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync 2
Material: Silicone
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Turn the toy on by holding down the button on it for a few seconds. Adjust the fit before inserting, using the hinge in the center of the toy. Control it via the button on the toy or the included remote, or by pairing it with the We-Vibe app.
This toy is designed to be “worn” vaginally during penetrative sex, with one arm resting internally on the G-spot and the other externally on the clitoris, so you have that to look forward to when you can be physically together again. Gigi Engle, a certified sex and relationship psychotherapist and intimacy expert for dating app 3Fun, likes that the accompanying app is easy to use to tease a partner from a distance. Plus, this toy can be used alone or paired with a dildo; each thrust will cause the internal arm to rub against the G-spot more firmly.
Pros: Adjustable fit; 10+ vibration settings; powerful rumbly vibrations; can be worn during penetrative sex (or while using a dildo); waterproof; quiet
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; hinge could break if handled too aggressively
The Best Stroker: Lovense Max 2
Material: ABS plastic and TPE (thermoplastic elastomer)
Battery Life: 5 hours
How to Use: Use the power button to turn the toy off and on, and control it with the buttons or the Lovense app. Apply a water-based lubricant to the inside and entrance of the toy before penetrating it.
“Max 2 is an innovative male masturbator sleeve featuring adjustable vibrations and contractions to make the sensations as realistic as possible,” Rowntree says. If you give up control to your partner via the Lovense app, they can adjust the vibrations and the rhythmic squeezing function separately from one another, engineering your orgasm however they please. You can use it by itself or sync it up with other Lovense toys, like the Nora (above), for a more immersive, teledildonic experience.
Pros: Offers both vibration and contractions/squeezing; multiple settings for each function; sleeve can be removed for easier cleaning; adjustable air vent so you can control the amount of suction; syncs with some other Lovense toys like the Nora for a “teledildonic” experience; water-resistant; long battery life
Cons: Noisy; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Wearable Vibrator: Lovense Lush 3
Material: Silicone
Battery Life: 5 hours
How to Use: Turn the toy off or on with the button on it. Control its settings with the same button or by pairing it with the Lovense app.
The Lush 3 is designed to be worn internally for people with vaginas, and Rowntree describes it as a toy that “gives deep rumbly vibrations right to the G-spot and all your other sweet spots.” Its ergonomic design keeps it in place comfortably, even if the wearer is moving around, so it’s a good choice for discreet public play. It also works well as a hands-free G-spot vibrator which can be controlled from near or far.
Pros: Powerful vibrations; good shape for hands-free G-spot stimulation; waterproof; long battery life; quiet/discreet enough for public use
Cons: Clitoral stimulation is pretty minimal; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Sucking Toy: Satisfyer Love Triangle
Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 1 hour
How to Use: Turn the toy on and off using the power button. Control its vibrations and pressure waves with the other buttons, or pair it with the Satisfyer app.
Oral sex is the tried and true way to give someone with a clitoris an orgasm. Not everyone loves it, but the people who do really love it. The Satisfyer uses air pulse technology to surround the clitoris creating the feeling of oral sex. The Love Triangle pairs with the Satisfyer App, giving you control over the modes of the toy from afar. You can create your very own customized experience for your partner.
